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EVENTS

PreQualified Mates, PreQM, hosted events at trendy venues for single men and women.

 

 

 


Thursday Night Pre-Party!
Mar
1
7:00 PM19:00

Thursday Night Pre-Party!

Need a date? Come meet single men and women in Palo Alto while grooving to the awesome DJ, & maybe you will fill up your dance card!

The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) & enjoy a glass of wine & small plates with some charming company.

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 Ted Talk Berkeley: 2018 You Are Here...
Feb
17
10:00 AM10:00

Ted Talk Berkeley: 2018 You Are Here...

TEDxBerkeley is gathering world-leading thinkers, makers, and doers at UC Berkeley to discuss “You are Here.” The audience will be composed of a diverse mix of over 1500 students, professors, and thought leaders from Berkeley and beyond for a stimulating day of presentations, discussions, entertainment & art that will spark new ideas and opportunities for all.

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Dec
28
7:00 PM19:00

Pre-Party: Party Socialize, Drink, & Nibble!...

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons at Quattro. Sip on Holiday-Inspired cocktails, while grooving to the awesome DJ.

Drop off your card to win a rewrite of your online profile.

Can sending someone a drink improve your social life? Indeed! It works even better if you tip the server handsomely in advance!

Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond or perhaps, Daniel Craig? The Sommelier and Mixologists from may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your social success.

The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company.

We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups, so don't miss out!

Perhaps you need some new game. Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

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Dec
3
2:00 PM14:00

The Elusive Second Date: Are you 2nd-date-able?

You have no problem getting a first date. Yet, no one ever asks you out for a 2nd date. Or, no one ever accepts your 2nd date requests. Ever wonder why?

Let’s discuss why you may not be 2nd date-able. Perhaps, it's time to own it. And figure out how to transform your results.

Is it you? Is it them? Or, somewhere in between?

What are you doing? What image are you projecting? How are you presenting yourself? Who are you choosing for your 1st dates? What can you change? What can you control?

What can you do to help make you 2nd Date-able?

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Jun
30
4:30 PM16:30

SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR! DJ & Moet!

Join us at the Four Seasons [ESC]! A sophisticated wine bar, buzzing with energy. Happy Hour just for us (details forthcoming) with a special Moet Ice Champagne Cocktail! Exclusively curated music by BELLOSOUND. Pretty Cool!

The dress code is casually elegant. Please use your Tiffany's Manners; RSVP if you are actually planning to attend. We understand last minute changes, so email Wendy if you need to cancel (wendy@preqm.com). 

Come & Enjoy an extra special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Ya think?

The Four Seasons is graciously offering a drawing for any check above $100 for a chance to win a $150 gift certificate! Merci beaucoup!

Got Questions about Dating? Talk to Wendy, the founder of PreQM. She's our hostess!

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SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR NIGHT! Preview Night at [esq]
Apr
14
7:00 PM19:00

SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR NIGHT! Preview Night at [esq]

Join us at the Four Seasons Opening Night of [ESQ]! A sophisticated wine bar, buzzing with energy. Offerings include house made charcuterie, artisan local cheeses & rare California wines available by the glass. Exclusively curated music by BELLOSOUND. Pretty Cool!

The 1st glass of Prosecco is complimentary to the ladies from 7 to 730!

Shuck. Oysters and Caviar night. The classic pairing of oysters (Stand back! You know what they say about oysters!) & caviar. Oysters will be available on the half-shell and shucked to order. Caviar by the ounce with traditional accompaniments and the beverage selection will feature sparkling wines from California's most renowned wineries.

Come & Enjoy an extra special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper?

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New in Town
Apr
2
4:00 PM16:00

New in Town

  • Menlo Grill at the Stanford Park Hotel (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

 

Moving is considered to be one of the most stressful things in life. Have you recently been relocated to Silicon Valley? Finding women few & far between in the sea of all of our fine tech companies? Come chill with us and meet some amazing people. It's an excellent networking opportunity.

DATING TIPS

 
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Socialize, Drink, Nibble at the Coolest Venue in Tahoe...
Mar
16
7:00 PM19:00

Socialize, Drink, Nibble at the Coolest Venue in Tahoe...

Come & Enjoy a special evening with us at Jimmy's, Restaurant Bar at The Landing in Tahoe adjacent to Edgewood in South Lake Tahoe. Hopefully, by March, Highway 50 will be open past Pollack Pines and the Boulders will have been removed by Cave Rock so we all can make it! Click here to RSVP

The Landing is a very special property. Firepits, great food, music, excellent ambiance. Join us for fine cocktails & small plates at Jimmy's.

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The Landing is truly Tahoe casually elegant. What does that mean? Well, if it's snowing or if there's snow & ice on the ground, you can wear boots. It's a very nice, comfortable place, so appropriate apres ski attire is in order.  Get glammed up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company. 

 

Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Yes, but it works even better if you tip the server handsomely in advance!  

Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper? The Sommelier may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your love life. Click here for more great dating tips.  We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups, so don't miss out!

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To Do & What Not to Do
Jan
11
6:30 PM18:30

To Do & What Not to Do

  • 1691 Grant Road Mountain View, CA (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Part II Following up on our Initial "5 Things To Do and Not to Do on a First Date," we will continue our interactive event.

CLICK HERE TO RSVP

Are you double faulting on dates? Down Love-40? Have you really mastered the art of dating? Do you feel like a dating warrior? Is the entire process overwhelming? Are you prepared internally & externally to date?

The 5 "Oh Yay" things you absolutely should do when dating.

Things that will give you chance to succeed in dating. Things that will take you from the "Friend Zone" to the "Yummy Zone." The 5 "Oh No" things you might be doing (or not doing) which may be limiting the likelihood of ever achieving a subsequent date.

Fab & I were recently chatting about etiquette. We all come from different backgrounds. My father never let up, his entire life (really, dad?), instructing family members about “Tiffany’s Table Manners,” etc. But not just about that. One of the members of this group said that my father, May he now RIP, should lead one of our events, sharing how to behave with people. Well, we missed that opportunity...

Tasty: chocolate, cheese and champagne will be available. There is a nominal $20 cover charge for this event to help cover our costs.

Please RSVP in advance if you sincerely plan to attend. In light of the topic, please use your Tiffany’s Manners. If you need to cancel, please kindly do so with as much advance notice as possible.

Upon RSVPing yes, we will send you the address in Mountain View.

 
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Oct
29
6:30 PM18:30

Happy Halloween! Socialize, Drink, Nibble: Music, Mixology & Vamps?...

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons! It's Halloween weekend. Let's keep it cool, but feel free to dawn an eyemask or sport the vamp look. We may award the brunch for two to the person with the BEST makeup...to be determined!

Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper? The Sommelier and Mixologists from Quattro may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your love life. Click here for more great dating tips.

The Four Seasons is featuring international DJ Steve Fernandez!  Steve Fernandez calls music “the roadmap to his existence” and traces his influences back to everything from Peter Gabriel and ZZ Top to Deadmau5 and Jay-Z.

The Four Seasons does everything right. Enter our drawing for a Free Brunch for 2 at the Quattro (their brunch is FAMOUS!)! Also, the Four Seasons is also offering a drawing for a "Staycation": those who spend over $250 this evening will be automatically entered to win a Free Night at the Four Seasons Silicon Valley so you should have an excellent chance!  

The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company.

We were honored at our last event to have Troy Aikman hang with us (omg! and he is single, afterall), plus one of the most famous new-age thinkers join us as a guest of an attendee; a minor celebrity.  We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups that meet there, so don't miss out in time for a date for Halloween!

How are you succeeding in finding love? Perhaps you need some new game? If so, reach out to Wendy, the Founder of PreQualified Mates. She will be there and would love to speak with you. 

Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

Hope to see you there!

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Oct
19
6:30 PM18:30

Single MD, JD or PhD?...

Are you a single doctor, lawyer, or PhD? Have you had relationship struggles with dates, bf’s, gf’s and ex's that just don’t seem to understand either the demands on your schedule or the commitment required by your profession?  RSVP Here

Has dating in San Francisco been a struggle, having recently moved to the area for work or training? Has it been difficult with your demanding schedule to find someone with similar interests? Do you feel like nobody understands your challenge for love?

Have you been asked by your ex’s to “quit your job,” “stop working so much,” or “drop out of medical school” because they just don’t get it?

Well, we do. Build a real relationship with someone who understands the rigors, yet believes in the concept of work/life balance.

Meet with us for a beautiful glass of a wine. Dr. Diane Strachowski will speak briefly on partner balance. Dr. Diane has identified 7 different "relationship-types“ including the “Renaissance Lover” and the “Hesitant Romantic.” Understanding our emotional type may help us gain insight into ourselves and help us to better understand and navigate our relationships.

Please understand that we are neither elitists nor are we pretentious snobs. We are serving a need for professionals who have specifically requested we host events for this particular demographic.

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Aug
25
8:00 PM20:00

Socialize, Drink, Nibble: Music & Celebs?

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9" really work?Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper? The Sommelier and Mixologists from Quattro may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your love life. Click here for more great dating tips.

Continuing the Chronicle Nights Series at the Four Seasons, International DJ, and Owner of Bellsound Music Inc, Daniel Buckman will be performing!  It’s an amazing opportunity.  Daniel travels to many international venues frequently and we are lucky to hear his amazing music. There will be lights and the music will go late!  Click here to take a listen!

Enter our drawing for a Free Brunch for 2 at the Quattro (their brunch is FAMOUS!)!  Also, the Four Seasons is also offering a drawing for a "Staycation": those who spend over $250 this evening will be automatically entered to win a Free Night at the Four Seasons Silicon Valley so you should have an excellent chance!  The Four Seasons does everything right. 

Join us for fine cocktails & small plates at the Four Seasons. The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company. 

We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups, so don't miss out in time for a date for Labor Day Weekend!

 Are you looking for a unicorn?  How is that working for you?

Are you looking for a unicorn?  How is that working for you?

How are you succeeding in finding love? Perhaps you need some new game? If so, reach out to Wendy, the Founder of PreQualified Mates and the organizer of our Meetup. She will be there and would love to speak with you. 

Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

Hope to see you there!

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Jul
22
7:30 PM19:30

Socialize, Drink, Nibble: Music, Mixology & Celebs? Free Bubbly (see below)...

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9" really work?Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper? The Sommelier and Mixologists from Quattro may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your love life. Click here for more great dating tips.

The Sommelier and Mixologists from Quattro are such dolls!  They just announced that they will be offering a Free Glass of Zardetto Prosecco from the DOC region to the ladies in our group from 730pm to 830pm! Grazi di tutto!

Also, be sure to drop off your business card in the bowl on the bar for a chance to win their legendary Sunday Brunch for Two!

The Four Seasons is featuring a live cigar roller, for all of you aficionados commencing at 9!  Also, the Four Seasons is also offering a drawing for a "Staycation": those who spend over $250 this evening will be automatically entered to win a Free Night in August at the Four Seasons Silicon Valley so you should have an excellent chance!  The Four Seasons does everything right.  

Join us for fine cocktails & small plates at the Four Seasons. Music starts at 830. The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company.   

We were honored at our last event to have one of the most famous new-age thinkers join us as a guest of an attendee; a minor celebrity.  We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups that meet there, so don't miss out in time for a date for Labor Day Weekend!

How are you succeeding in finding love? Perhaps you need some new game? If so, reach out to Wendy, the Founder of PreQualified Mates and the organizer of our Meetup. She will be there and would love to speak with you.  

Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

Hope to see you there!

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Jun
24
7:30 PM19:30

Socialize, Drink, Nibble with Music & Mixology! 1 Free Glass (see details below)...

  • Quattro at the Four Seasons Silicon Valley (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9"really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper?

The Four Seasons is featuring a live cigar roller, for all of you aficionados commencing at 9!  Enter our drawing for a Free Brunch for 2 at the Quattro (their brunch is FAMOUS!)!  Also, the Four Seasons is also offering a drawing for a "Staycation": those who spend over $250 this evening will be automatically entered to win a Free Night in August at the Four Seasons Silicon Valley so you should have an excellent chance!  The Four Seasons does everything right.

We were honored at our last event to have one of the most famous new-age thinkers join us as a guest of an attendee; a minor celebrity.  We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups that meet there, so don't miss out in time for a date for Labor Day Weekend!

How are you succeeding in finding love? Perhaps you need some new game? Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

Hope to see you there!

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Jun
3
7:30 PM19:30

Socialize, Drink, Nibble with Music! Free Glass of Sparkling Wine for the Women!

In the Quattro Lounge around the heated Patio...

In the Quattro Lounge around the heated Patio...

Come & Enjoy a special evening with us at the Four Seasons! The Four Seasons is generously offering all of the women a complimentary glass of Sparkling Wine (and you know it will be a nice one since it's the Four Seasons)!  They do everything right.  Enter our drawing to win awesome Four Seasons swag! RSVP for this event, and keep an eye out. 

Join us fine cocktails & small plates at the Four Seasons. Singer Margie Baker starts singing at 830. The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company.  

We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups that meet there, so don't miss out in time for a date for the Fourth of July!

How are you succeeding in finding love? Perhaps you need some new game? If so, reach out to Wendy, the Founder of PreQualified Mates and the organizer of our Meetup. She will be there and would love to speak with you. 

Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

Hope to see you there!

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May
26
7:30 PM19:30

Voulez-vous...Les FrancoFun 1 - 80's night !! Le Bread Xpress Launch

Bonjour!  Les FrancoFun, for French and International people living in the Bay Area and who enjoy good food, networking time and dance.  Tres Francaise!

RSVPing here does not get you into the event.  Click here to purchase your ticket on Eventbrite.

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Keep an eye out for our dating coach Fabienne also known as Fab (and she is)!

The main theme is the launch of "Le Bread Xpress!" Dancetheme will be French 80's so bring back your memories and dance to Indochine, Mylene Farmer, Rita Mitsouko, Jeanne Mas, Patrick Capdevielle.  We will also have some 2016 American Pop singers ..we welcome requests!

7:30 - 9 PM WELCOME, Appetizers and mingle.  
- Welcome
- Buffet with small bites, cheese, charcuterie and BAGUETTES!
- Special announcement/Guest : Le Bread Xpress , Company Launch


9 PM - 11:30 PM Dance Party with DJ
- Theme for the night is French music from the 80's !! with few breaks with existing pop music
 

Entree Fee includes: Event Networking, appetizers and small bites, Full Dance party with Live DJ
Not included: Drinks (cocktail, wine, ... are available at the bar for purchase)

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