PreQualified Mates
Exclusive Boutique Dating for the Best Singles
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EVENTS

PreQualified Mates, PreQM, hosts events at trendy venues for single men and women.

 

 

 

Dating App Nightmares, Missteps & How to Avoid Them...
Sep
19
7:00 PM19:00

Dating App Nightmares, Missteps & How to Avoid Them...

Have you fumbled on the Apps? Who hasn't? Navigating dating in this era of rampant narcissism. RSVP

Are they really poly & open? No judgement - we are perfectly fine with it, but everyone who says they are, may not really be so. How do you know who is and who isn't? Does it matter?

Let's swap stories in a constructive way.

We will valuable share secrets on how perfect dating on the Apps and evade the issues on a go-forward basis. It really should not be that hard.

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Coastal Cleanup Day - NorCal
Sep
21
8:30 AM08:30

Coastal Cleanup Day - NorCal

35th Annual California Coastal Cleanup Day.
Volunteer & Help support a beautiful cause. Join the ECO Warrior team for The Battle for the Bay at Lake Merritt and meet volunteers who share the same respect for our Oceans and Waterways as you do. Help set a good example for our community by keeping our beaches and waterways clean and litter free. Hope to see you there!

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To Do & What Not to Do
May
22
7:00 PM19:00

To Do & What Not to Do

What should you do on a date & and what shouldn’t you do? Do you know? Are you double faulting on dates? Have you really mastered the art of dating? Do you feel like a dating warrior? Is the entire process overwhelming? Are you prepared internally & externally to date?

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Apres Ski Cocktails/Pre-St. Patrick's Day Get-Together in Tahoe...
Mar
16
7:00 PM19:00

Apres Ski Cocktails/Pre-St. Patrick's Day Get-Together in Tahoe...

Enjoy apres ski cocktails with us at Jimmy's, Restaurant Bar at The Landing in Tahoe adjacent to Edgewood in South Lake Tahoe. Meet single men and women.

Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Indeed. It works even better if you tip the server handsomely in advance! Why? The server can help you. Trust us. Try it! Join PreQM.

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Wanna Walk on the Wild Side?...
Feb
17
11:30 AM11:30

Wanna Walk on the Wild Side?...

Last June, I wrote The Best Places to Meet Women? Think Out of the Box... Places where women or men go. If you are RSVPing on line for an event, take a look at the other attendees. You can’t always tell, but sometimes, you can. Going out on a limb that there will be a lot of extremely fit women at this competition. The attendees appear to be the same demographic. Fans. We’ve heard this sport is a blast. We’ve got to try it.

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Aug
25
3:00 PM15:00

Exotics on Cannery Row

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This week, we are enjoying the Pebble Beach Concours d'Elegance. Subscribe to our blog  (check out this one), you'd be clued into why this one rocks. Ooh, yeah, baby! The Exotics!

It's going to be a zoo, so we may not find each other. But we will be there. I will be with Bentley. Not a car, but my very handsome Coton de Tulear.

There's an amazing crowd at The Concourse. My .02: dress European Chic. If you have a cool watch & shoes or boots, this is the place to subtley strut your stuff. Exciting car & people watching. Parking will be a challenge.

Please do not be upset if we don't connect at the Exotics. We will be there til 6. Perhaps later. Have a BLAST!

We have some very exciting events coming up, so please be sure to sign up for our blog. Going for records. No lie!

 
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Thursday Night Pre-Party!
Mar
1
7:00 PM19:00

Thursday Night Pre-Party!

Need a date? Come meet single men and women in Palo Alto while grooving to the awesome DJ, & maybe you will fill up your dance card!

The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) & enjoy a glass of wine & small plates with some charming company.

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 Ted Talk Berkeley: 2018 You Are Here...
Feb
17
10:00 AM10:00

Ted Talk Berkeley: 2018 You Are Here...

TEDxBerkeley is gathering world-leading thinkers, makers, and doers at UC Berkeley to discuss “You are Here.” The audience will be composed of a diverse mix of over 1500 students, professors, and thought leaders from Berkeley and beyond for a stimulating day of presentations, discussions, entertainment & art that will spark new ideas and opportunities for all.

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Dec
28
7:00 PM19:00

Pre-Party: Party Socialize, Drink, & Nibble!...

Come & Enjoy another special evening with us at the Four Seasons at Quattro. Sip on Holiday-Inspired cocktails, while grooving to the awesome DJ.

Drop off your card to win a rewrite of your online profile.

Can sending someone a drink improve your social life? Indeed! It works even better if you tip the server handsomely in advance!

Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond or perhaps, Daniel Craig? The Sommelier and Mixologists from may suggest the best cocktails to possibly improve your social success.

The Four Seasons is truly casually elegant, so get dolled up a bit (that means you, too, guys!) and enjoy a beautiful glass of wine or beer with some charming company.

We've been told that our group is higher quality in both appearance and social skills relative to the other online dating site single groups, so don't miss out!

Perhaps you need some new game. Are you interested in meeting some interesting singles, not online, but for real, in person? Or are you looking for a unicorn?

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Dec
3
2:00 PM14:00

The Elusive Second Date: Are you 2nd-date-able?

You have no problem getting a first date. Yet, no one ever asks you out for a 2nd date. Or, no one ever accepts your 2nd date requests. Ever wonder why?

Let’s discuss why you may not be 2nd date-able. Perhaps, it's time to own it. And figure out how to transform your results.

Is it you? Is it them? Or, somewhere in between?

What are you doing? What image are you projecting? How are you presenting yourself? Who are you choosing for your 1st dates? What can you change? What can you control?

What can you do to help make you 2nd Date-able?

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Jun
30
4:30 PM16:30

SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR! DJ & Moet!

Join us at the Four Seasons [ESC]! A sophisticated wine bar, buzzing with energy. Happy Hour just for us (details forthcoming) with a special Moet Ice Champagne Cocktail! Exclusively curated music by BELLOSOUND. Pretty Cool!

The dress code is casually elegant. Please use your Tiffany's Manners; RSVP if you are actually planning to attend. We understand last minute changes, so email Wendy if you need to cancel (wendy@preqm.com). 

Come & Enjoy an extra special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Ya think?

The Four Seasons is graciously offering a drawing for any check above $100 for a chance to win a $150 gift certificate! Merci beaucoup!

Got Questions about Dating? Talk to Wendy, the founder of PreQM. She's our hostess!

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SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR NIGHT! Preview Night at [esq]
Apr
14
7:00 PM19:00

SHUCK. OYSTERS & CAVIAR NIGHT! Preview Night at [esq]

Join us at the Four Seasons Opening Night of [ESQ]! A sophisticated wine bar, buzzing with energy. Offerings include house made charcuterie, artisan local cheeses & rare California wines available by the glass. Exclusively curated music by BELLOSOUND. Pretty Cool!

The 1st glass of Prosecco is complimentary to the ladies from 7 to 730!

Shuck. Oysters and Caviar night. The classic pairing of oysters (Stand back! You know what they say about oysters!) & caviar. Oysters will be available on the half-shell and shucked to order. Caviar by the ounce with traditional accompaniments and the beverage selection will feature sparkling wines from California's most renowned wineries.

Come & Enjoy an extra special evening with us at the Four Seasons! Can sending someone a drink improve your dating success? Does "Love Potion #9" really work? Could it be that subliminally, when you send over a Vesper, they associate you with James Bond, Daniel Craig, Casino Royale, or Vesper?

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New in Town
Apr
2
4:00 PM16:00

New in Town

  • Menlo Grill at the Stanford Park Hotel (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

 

Moving is considered to be one of the most stressful things in life. Have you recently been relocated to Silicon Valley? Finding women few & far between in the sea of all of our fine tech companies? Come chill with us and meet some amazing people. It's an excellent networking opportunity.

DATING TIPS

 
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